2012年8月26日星期日

生活

8月27日,早上5点36分...

距离回去读书还有14天。是我第一次那么不想回去。不想那种要面对老师的压力,课业的压力,朋友的压力还有一个人生活的压力。

大学就是不一样,生活不能像中学时期上完课可以回家。累了有父母陪在身旁,有妹妹陪我开玩笑。而在大学那个并不是家,对我而言,那只是个居住的“家”,缺少温暖,生气,只有那么一个冷淡的四面墙。不晓得这次回去会拿到怎样的房间,有没有像之前一样的糟糕。

想想,我住的地方是校外,从宿舍到学校赛车的需要半小时,幸运的只需要8分钟。将来我要面对的不只是等侯巴士的心情,要面对的是一个人的生活。我在那宿舍严格说只有三个朋友,他们都搬走了,就剩我一个。我以后怎么办?我以后就是一个人等巴士,如果没上课的就是一个人吃早午晚餐,周末一个人看电视,一个人读书,无聊时得自己找节目,生病了又怎么办,一个睡不醒的话就又再逃课了。不开心时又有谁在身旁逗我开心,开心时又有谁在身边与我分享,无助时又有谁在身旁扶持,想聊心事时又有谁在身边聆听。

我...好累...

2009年3月26日星期四

The Elements of Friendship

When was the last time you made a friend? A friend is someone who is honest and you can trust. A friend is someone who you hang out with a lot, and some one you rely on. Friendship is being there for someone when they need you, and to have a common bond to have the freedom of hanging out with each other and to be comfortable around each other. The main ideas of friendship are honesty and trust, caring and having similarities.

Without honesty and trust friendship wouldn’t last very long. The definition of honesty is “quality and condition of being honest, integrity”. Friendship would be held up by honesty. Trust is another important thing that relates to honesty, your friends really need to trust you. Honesty and trust are very important but so is caring.
You need to care for your friends so the relationship will last. The definition for caring is to be concerned or interested for others. An example of care is being there when someone really need you like during a bad situation. You should also be supportive of your friends. The definition of support is to take sides with or to provide help. Even though caring is important so are similarities and similarities in interest.
Similarities in friendship will make the bond grow. The definition of similarities is the quality or condition of being alike, resemblance. An example of similarities is two friends liking the same kind of music. Similarities in interests are things like a couple of
friends liking the same thing like music, hobbies and many other things. It would help by making them want to do more things together.
Good friends will always use honesty and trust, caring and support, and similarities in interest if they want their friendship to last. Good friends never want say GOODBYE!